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It all boils down to this: What is it that you really want?You may not know the answer to that question, and it may be quite confusing for you.What you need to do is to decide on something you want a lot, and realize that whatever it is, it might change over time. And it's more important to make a decision so you can move forward than it is to make the right decision. It's more important to make a decision and move forward than it is to make the right decision, because if you make the wrong decision, it makes it much easier to make the right decision in the future.The idea is to choose what you want and go after it. It will be something that gets you so excited that you'll fixate on it. You'll be entirely obsessed. Find whatever it is and throw yourself at it full force. At first, you won't notice performance anxiety because you're completely focused on your work, whatever that is. Can you see that?If you aren't sure about what you want, don't focus on what you don't want. That may be where you are in your head right now. There are definitely things you don't want. Forget them! What you want may be completely the opposite of what you do want right now.Write down what you do what, like this: "My wants: Freedom. Fun. Project-Based Work. Excitement. The ability to use my brain and be creative." Just write down everything you want. These are probably ingrained into your own value system. Think back to when you were young. What did you totally love to do then? Were you into painting and being creative. Were you into sports and competition? Did you enjoy reading and writing or make-believe? Were you a loner or a leader? What value did those things provide? Write those down, too.Now, bring those things into your adult life. Compare what you liked as a kid and what you want as an adult. Find the incompatibilities. You'll soon see why you aren't happy with your job, and why you aren't making money. You're trying to go against something that you value.Many people, who value free time and fun over money, set earnings goals and never make them. They don't know why, either. This is because your goals aren't based on what you really want. Those things--your passions--are inside your value system. If you want relationships, fun, freedom, and spirituality, those are the things you should base your life around. Can that work for you? Try it!
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Tellman Knudson, certified Hypnotherapist, is CEO of Overcome Everything, Inc. Stephanie Frank is an internationally known speaker and author of "The Accidental Millionaire." Do you have adult ADD? Take the ADD test at Instant ADD Success
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