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There are some questions and scenarios that you and your partner should discuss before doing a potentially dangerous thing to your relationship. Jealousy is the key word here. Here are some questions to think about. • Is everyone allowed to have sex with each other? • Is kissing on the mouth allowed? If so, how will you feel when your partner kisses the third person? • If you are a female and have small breasts will you feel threatened if the third person is female and has larger breasts? • If you start having threesomes, how will you feel if your partner wants to do it again? Will this threaten your relationship if you feel your partner would rather have threesomes instead of couple sex? • Will you be worried that the other person will please your partner better than you? • Will you be worried that someone finds the other person more attractive? • Will you try threesomes with the different combinations: two guys and a girl, one guy and two girls? If you are in a relationship and really want to try a threesome, make sure you talk about every single aspect of it first so you are both confident that it is something you would like to try. By talking over the different scenarios it will hopefully avoid any apprehensiveness at the last moment. Once you have talked over everything, then you can start to imagine the fun that is to be had. Here are some of the things to think about… • Imagine four hands giving you a massage, and an extra mouth on your body. • Imagine watching two girls go down on each other, or two guys going down on each other - this could be the biggest turn on for you. • Imagine engaging in anal and vaginal sex at the same time, or having one person go down on you while the other person receives sex. • If you find that either both males, or both females are pleasuring each other, keep yourself busy and involved. You could masturbate, or provide kisses to the other two. • If ejaculation is decided on, then make sure both parties are comfortable with this scenario. If you are in a male and two female threesome and the male cums in one woman, this can make one of the women feel left out – unless it was agreed on to start. • If you are new to threesomes, the extra pleasure can be intense causing you to climax early. Be prepared for this, and if you feel as though you are going to cum try and hold back, unless of course you are a multi-orgasmic person. • Sex toys can also add spice to your threesome. It is great to use toys on each other. Make sure that everyone has their own toys as bacteria is easily spread through sharing toys. • Sex toys are also great to masturbate with if you find that the other two people are occupying themselves. • The threesome does not just have to involve your hands and mouth, toys make it fun and can make the night longer as they give your hands and mouth a break. The other thing to remember is when you involve the third person, make sure you stress that everyone will be practicing safe oral sex and intercourse. Use vaginal dams, condoms, latex gloves and be open from the start that safety is important. This is especially crucial if you don’t know the other person’s history and to avoid unwanted pregnancy. Define from the start what the boundaries are, eg no kissing on the mouth, no anal sex etc. Make sure all three parties are happy with the boundaries, if you set any. If you are involving sex toys in your threesome, then make sure you don’t insert a sex toy in one person and then straight into the other. Bacteria is spread very easily, especially from the anus. You can use condoms on the sex toys and clean them with anti-bacterial toy cleaner, however it is better for everyone to have their own products. If you are the single gender, you may be hoping that the other two will give you the most attention. Don’t get your hopes up, everyone is there to fulfill their own fantasy and no doubt wants to be pleased equally. The possibilities are endless in a threesome, just make sure the rules are set, safety is a priority and all three parties are happy.
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Written by Suzie Harris, an expert on all things that happen in the bedroom, particularly love, sex toys and romance. She is the chief contributor to The Lazy Stud www.thelazystud.com.au
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