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How many times have you told yourself, that you will start a successful business, write a bestseller book, or travel to Italy, or some other exotic place? Yet, here you are once again getting ready to go to a job you aren’t interested in anymore, you dread getting out of bed in the morning, you count the days until the weekend, when the weekend comes the days stretch out and you look forward to Monday? Or maybe you just feel restless and think there has to be more?If you have come to the end of the road, or so you think, on getting your idea, your dream, your project, off the ground, try something different. Instead of always telling yourself, “I can’t do it, I can’t afford it, I can’t figure out how to make it happen”, change your perspective, change your mindset. The mind is a very powerful machine and it will always find ways to make what you are thinking happen.When we hit a block in our creative process, and yes, starting a business, crunching finances, or figuring out how to pay for your dream vacation, are all creative processes. We become negative, we actually tell ourselves we can’t do it and list all the reasons why not. Most times if you actually wrote down the reasons you couldn’t do something, you would be surprised at what showed up. But, we don’t write them down, we just say in our heads “I can’t do that” and so you don’t ever actually achieve your goals.So the next time you hit a block, instead of thinking “I can’t” ask yourself “How can I do it, or how can I afford it, how can I make it happen?” This starts the mind running, ideas you never would have thought of will occur to you, different options will open up. Doors that were previously closed will open.This is an example of two completely different mindsets, the negative mindset shuts the brain off, your creativity is locked down, and you take the easy way out. You believe that you can’t do it and so remain stuck in place. The other positive mindset opens the mind, stimulates the mind on how to make it happen, with a positive outcome.To transfer your negative mindset to a positive mind set, you need to change your inner beliefs and thoughts. One way to do this is through self coaching. Self coaching is the way we talk to ourselves, to ensure success at all we do, this self talk must always be positive.To learn more on this topic, click here: http://www.coaching4tomorrow.com
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Susan Feder is a certified Life Coach, who specializes in success coaching and Find Your Joy workshops. She is the owner of Coaching4tomorrow and AMN (Achieve More Now) Enterprises. She currently is offering individual and group coaching, Mastermind Groups and personalized "Find Your Joy" workshops and retreats.
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