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When we make people do something we might be succeeding in the end. But by acting this way do we really realize what we might lose by manipulating people like this? We could lose our balance, our temper, our peace of mind, respect from other people, and not to forget our feeling of happiness.This is not what we deserve. Don’t we have the right to be happy without the approval of other people without us manipulating them to get our commands fulfilled? Again it is our EGO that is playing up. Our EGO is scared to be left on its own if it does not continuously use its influence on other people. We are scared that if we release them nothing will happen or people might forget us.Many people believe that they will be deprived of everything if they do not race behind all kind of matters. Our EGO lets us believe that it will not get us anywhere if we release people. For that reason we clench to it and stretch our grabbing arms to our surrounding, we push, draw, manipulate, command, force, keep chasing… only because we believe that if we don’t we will never fulfill our goals of life.At the mean time we keep postponing our happiness for a later moment. Probably we suddenly realize that the things we get spontaneously, we did not get by commanding.So why did we get them than anyway?We get them because from our inner being we know we will get what is good for us and therefore we can release it. We can take the pressure away. If we release our commanding attitude, people and things will come to us spontaneously. Our inner being knows that everything will be taken care of, it knows that we will be guided, inspired and supported. It gratefully uses the inner “Manual” before it starts taking action. It enjoys the challenges it meets, because it knows that everything which is needed will come in an almost magical way.By its deep confidence in its intuitive Guide he goes synchronous with what is happening around him and he will find people and situations that are like “Signposts” on its path of life. All kind of opportunities fall into his lap to reach his goal. Every conflict or friction which he might experience from the outside world, he will use as a signal to adjust his inner attitude, release more supervision, nourish confidence and act instinctively. People will say “he has been born for fortune”, and ask themselves how he manages it all. Ask clearly what you want, in the meantime release in sincere confidence. In this way we reach the highest level of real power and character. In this way we can fulfill all our goals of life. We all have this inner “Manual” within us, we only forgot how to use it. The only thing we have to do is let our heart talk and we will experience our real wisdom. We did experience it probably many times already, the only problem is we did not realize it.Have you noticed for example that people are willing to help you more spontaneously when you don’t force them? They like to be with you if you respect them and accept them the way they are. It will bring to the surface the best in every person if you show them confidence. Our distrust, compulsion and critics make the other person insecure and unmotivated. The more we try to correct people in a critical way, point out his mistakes and weaknesses, the more he will flounder and show more weakness. So let us release them and give them freedom. Support them in building up there self confidence.Let us look them straight in the eyes and tell them sincerely; “ I believe in you, I know you have the power and the knowledge to bring this challenge to a good end”. This will stimulate their self confidence and it will awaken their creative spiritual mind. But first of all we need to find our own self confidence to be able to give other people our confidence.By recuperating the relation with our inner being, we will automatically create a relation on mutual trust with our Source, which feels like finding an inexhaustible source of energy.
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Sjef van De Laak www.enrich-life.net
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