Interesting Topics Of Conversation

The way you converse and how you deliver your sentences are equally important as to what you say. Oftentimes, in the course of the conversation we dread the awkward moments of silence. Remember the old adage “silence is golden”. Be comfortable with it , accept the fact that there are really momentary segments of silence in a natural course of a conversation. As a result , you will give off a relaxed , calm aura to the one you are speaking with. Just don’t be too extremely silent though. You don’t want the other person to think that you are not “there”.

What do we say after we said hi? Common sense tells me, to comment and ask on what is here and now. For example, you meet someone at a wedding party, after exchanging hi and hellos, you comment and ask like” I can see the couple come from big families, are you a relative of the groom or the bride?” You can then cue her off to another thread of topic using the keyword of her reply. If she replies” yes I’m related to the groom”. (keyword: groom) and then you can say” I see, I heard Robby (the groom) is from Atlanta, do you live in Atlanta as well?” And you can go on and on using the keywords that she uses. See, how easy it is?

Another strategy is to bring appropriate props with you, to start enjoyable minutes of conversation with someone you want to meet.. And here are a few suggested props:

Telescope- if you go gaga over stargazing, why not take your telescope to the streets one summer night? When a cute and curious guy pauses to find out what you are doing, offer that person a view of the colorful ring around Saturn.

Paints and easel- set up an easel in the park and draw or re-create what you see. You could be interrupted by someone attractive , who may express a want to model for you.

Magazines- you can actually target the kind of person you’d like to meet by carrying a magazine that would appeal to his/her interests. Want an outdoorsy man? Try Field and Stream. Someone with a mechanical bent? How about Motor Trend? A doctor? Pick up New England Journal of Medicine. It’s only a matter of time someone with the same hobby , passion or profession will comment on the magazine you are bringing.

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