Looking for REAL Love - It Starts With Unlearning

Real Love for Real People.

When you say “I believe” are you sure you are being wise? Many things we believe are actually rationalizations. Justifications. We believe this and that because it makes something we did, or didn’t do, ok.

Alternatively, we “believe” certain things because others caused us discomfort, and we now believe they shouldn’t have. Therefore, we believe.

To live a real loving life you better not “believe” too much. Beliefs are your egoistic nature, not true nature. No one wants to be with your egoistic nature for long. It’s boring, righteous and lacks intimacy. There is no vulnerability in beliefs.

Real love can only penetrate the walls of egoistic beliefs if you are willing, at home at least, to confess you don’t really know. If you are always right, you’ll be uptight.

At work you might need this façade, because you are afraid of being fired, or seen as insecure, but you have to take off this coat at home. To be in this suit at home is not real, its false.

This is why all affairs happen. It’s not only caused by the participating partner. The “passive Victim” in a relationship has as much responsibility in causing an affair as the active one. If we can’t be real at home, because the passive partner has all these expectations and judgments, then people take their vulnerability elsewhere.

I believe in love, real love. And I know you do too. The real issue is are your beliefs real too. Real beliefs tie up with a universal law. Real then, because they are not the invention of self created fears and justifications, or rationalizations. Real because they are universal. There’s two sides to everything and every one – now that’s a universal law and that leads to real love.

Can you love both sides of you?

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Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris’s work and journeys to Nepal, visit www.chriswalker.com.au

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