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Elaine Sihera's Articles

  • 10 Consequences Of Our Modern World
    Things are changing gradually around us, often in a dramatic way too. Question is, how do we now deal with them to establish personal security and confidence in our lives?
  • 2 Key Ways to Reduce Your Stress
    There is a lot of advice around regarding stress but everyone reacts differently to stress, with some people revelling in it as a challenge. There are two universal ways outlined here to tackle undue levels of stress.
  • 4 Key Reasons for Relationships
    You may believe that soulmates and lovers come into our lives mainly to be permanent and live with us happily ever after. But that is not quite right. There are other reasons for their presence.
  • 9 Tell-Tale Signs of Poor Communication in Relationships
    Do you find it easy to communicate in your relationship or does it follow a usual pattern which leaves both parties feeling frustrated and resentful? Does any of these common behaviour types apply to your partnership?
  • A Valentine Story: The Love of My Life
    Excerpt from 10 Easy Steps toFinding Your Ideal Soulmate! (Taken from the Introduction)If you are having difficulty finding your ideal partner, or you feel stuck in a problematic relationship, you could be missing out on up to 10 essential steps you should be taking to improve your situation.
  • Are Good Leaders Born or Made?
    Many people believe that great leaders are born and can't be trained. Apparently we have to possess some innate capacity to inspire others to assume leadership? But is that entirely right?
  • Are Your VALUES Blocking Your SUCCESS?
    Our personal values play a much bigger part in the decisions we make, and what we actually achieve, than we realise. What impact are your beliefs having on your life at the moment?
  • Beliefs That Harm Your Relationship (1)
    We tend to carry all sorts of beliefs into our relationships; beliefs handed down from our parents or designed to give us security and comfort. But how much do some limiting beliefs erode the quality of the union?
  • Beliefs That Harm Your Relationship (2)
    Sometimes we believe that love alone will change behaviour that irritates us in potential partners but it takes a genuine desire for self-change to get any difference in their actions. the best advice is to be supportive without too many expectations.
  • Beliefs That Harm Your Relationship (3)
    What is fair share in a relationship? It is difficult to assess because that notion is based entirely upon individual perception which seldom matches the reality of BOTH parties.
  • Could You Date Someone Ugly?
    (Agony Aunt Question) We are always keen to find someone who fits the cliched description of being 'tall, dark and handsome' or 'beautiful' and 'gorgeous'. But there are very few soulmates fitting that description which leads to needless disappointment in our search for perfection.
  • Deadly Sins Which Prevent Us Finding Soulmates (Part 1)
    Have you been having difficulty finding a new lover or soulmate? What exactly is keeping you from finding the ideal person for you, despite all the dates you may attract? It could be some very simple things you haven't even thought about.
  • Deadly Sins Which Prevent Us Finding Soulmates (Part 2)
    Have you been having difficulty finding a new lover or soulmate? What exactly is keeping you from finding the ideal person for you, despite all the dates you may attract? It could be some very simple things you haven't even thought about.
  • Developing Good Interpersonal Skills - Part 2
    Develop good interpersonal skills is not easy but a little regular practice of these 10 essential tips could make a big difference to your day.
  • Do We Really Need A Black History Month?
    Do we really need a Black History Month? And how would we feel as Black people if we saw an annual celebration of a White History Month? This article was written for a British audience but it is equally applicable to the current Black History Month in the America.
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(1)- Key Things to Avoid
    Finding the right soulmate is often a lottery but, surprisingly, it is far less of a gamble when we stop to think of the part our thoughts, beliefs and actions play in sabotaging our search. What are yours like? Some simple but important things to note in searching for your soulmate.
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(2)- The Simple Art of Good Conversation
    Men and women are becoming lost on the protocol of what makes the right behaviour in seeking a mate. Often the conversation involved is very one-sided, boring or stilted. Here is a key tip in communicating to make your advances stand out and get the attention you seek.
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(3) - The Selection Plan
    How much do we actually think about our potential soulmate in a strategic and systematic way? Yet we do that for other aspects of our life. We don't take as many chances when buying a house or car as we do with finding a lover. Yet that's a lifetime decision.
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(4) - The First Key Steps
    What do you seek in a soulmate? Do you really know? This is not a question to be ignored because it could spell the difference between lifelong happiness or lifelong regret! If you don't know what you want, how are you going to recognise it when you see it?
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(5) - Know Yourself
    Many people would do anything to attract someone they like. But any form of presence and dishonesty which goes against our own beliefs and principles has a habit of knocking us sideways, and stopping the relationship in its track, when we least expect it.
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(6) - Increasing Your Opportunities For Attention
    How do you increase your opportunities for finding the potential lover and getting the attention you seek? By being in places you enjoy and meeting people there who are likely to share your interests. You not only increase your comfort levels but the more confident you feel is the more attractive you will appear. Some key tips are outlines here.
  • Finding Your Ideal Mate(7) - Myths About Internet Dating
    If you haven't yet tried Internet dating, it could be because of what you have heard about it. But this type of dating is not all negative and actually has some hidden surprises. Like anything else, the trick is to know how to use it and what you;re looking for. Here you can dispel a main myth about the service.
  • Five Keys to Great Happiness
    Why does happiness elude many people? What do we need to make us truly happy?
  • How Are Your Interpersonal Skills? - Part 1
    We say a lot to others even when we think we are not communicating but we cannot get by without developing some interpersonal skills. Without those essential tools, we are always found wanting.
  • How Can I Stop Worrying?
    Agony Advice - Is it really worth worrying in life? Are there better things you could be doing?
  • How Do I Get My Girlfriend To Respect Me?
    Agony Advice - We use the word respect very easily, but it is a very deceptive word which carries a number of dimensions we are hardly aware of. It cannot be forced in any situation. So do you think you have it, for yourself and others?
  • How Do I Handle Rejection?
    Agony Advice - Most people live in constant fear of being rejected. They fear it so much they rob themselves of a life by not allowing new encounters in case they get hurt. Some even want to commit suicide! But every rejection serves an essential purpose for the rest of our journey. Knowing how to handle it is most important thing, not the pain itself.
  • How Do I Make My Man Love Me?
    Agony Aunt Advice. Can we make anyone love us?
  • How Should I React if I Catch My Boyfriend Cheating?
    (Agony Aunt) Personal response to a specific query.It is always difficult to recover from betrayal. But if we keep an eye on the positive things, we move on much quicker instead of allowing our lives to be eaten up and destroyed by anger. What many people fail to
  • Is It Better to Have Loved than Not at All?
    Are you one of those who focus more on any pain in your life than on the opportunities it brings for self-development, self-enrichment and wisdom? You could be missing out on life itself.
  • Is it Time to Rewrite the Holy Books? (1)
    Do you believe in the Holy Bible or any religion? What does any book written so long ago, for the people of that time has to teach us in our 21st century technological age? How relevant is it to our lives?
  • Is it Time to Rewrite the Holy Books? (2)
    What relevance has the Bible to us and our world? Do we need new prophets to guide us on our journey?
  • Is The Alphabet Dictating Your Success? Part 1
    Have you been unsuccessful, and in situations where you should have walked it? Wondered why you are not leaping ahead just yet, despite your efforts? Forget your skills and experience. It could simply be down to your name!
  • Is The Alphabet Dictating Your Success? Some Evidence (Part 2)
    Do you get that nagging feeling that you deserve to be more successful than you are, but can't seem to make the grade? It could have very little to do with your skills or knowledge. Instead your surname could be the culprit!
  • No Such Thing As The Truth
    We hear about seeking 'the truth' a lot. We all want to believe we are telling 'the truth', relationships often break because of an absence of 'the truth'. But is there such a thing as 'the truth'?
  • Personal Values and Their Importance
    What kind of values do you have and how are they impacting on your life at this very moment?
  • Reacting to the Internet - The Cycle of Transition
    Are you comfortable with, or frightened of, the ever-growing Internet? However you feel about it depends mainly on where you are in the change process.
  • Relationships - The Most Lethal Cause of Stress(1)
    A recent survey has revealed the 12 major causes of stress which go to the heart of our existence. These are predictable but is enough attention and support being given to the most lethal cause of stress?
  • Relationships - The Most Lethal Cause of Stress(2)
    A recent survey has revealed the 12 major causes of stress which go to the heart of our existence. However, not enough attention is given to the effects of break-ups and loneliness, which continually damage self-esteem and feelings of worth.
  • Technology's Dramatic Effect on Relationships
    Technology is changing our lives, particularly our perspectives on relationships. However, while we are coming to terms with new dimensions in our personal life caused by technology, society is still back their in its approach trying to use outdated attitudes to cope with it!
  • The 3 Key Steps to Resolving Personal Issues
    You are feeling angry with your partner, lover, parent or friend. How do you seek to resolve it? What do you usually do first? If you are not getting the results you require, with disagreements or frustrations, there's something else needed.
  • The 3Rs of Personal Success (3)
    How successful do you really feel today? Are there any nagging doubt as to how you are progressing with your life? Success is not just a simple word which we can achieve if we merely work hard. It has three essential elements which, when they are lacking, leaves us with a sense of being failures. Any present feelings of demotivation could be connected to one of them.
  • The 3Rs of Personal Success(1)
    Success is not just a simple word which we can achieve if we merely work hard. It has three essential elements which, when they are lacking, leaves us with a sense of being failures. RECOGNITION is the first step towards personal success.
  • The 3Rs of Personal Success(2)
    Success is not just a simple word which we can achieve if we merely work hard. It has three essential elements which, when they are lacking, leaves us with a sense of being failures. RESPECT is the next step towards personal success, without it we feel unappreciated.
  • The 4 Main Reasons Why Partners Are Unfaithful
    Are you having problems in your relationship? Are you feeling unhappy without knowing why? Have you recently left a relationship? There could be key reasons for all this.
  • The BEST Way to Face Up To Change (1)
    Change can be a pretty scary deal, but how do you deal with it when you feel comfortable with the status quo and see no reason to behave differently?
  • The BEST Way to Face Up To Change (2)
    Change can be pretty scary but it is inevitable. Find out the MAIN reason which makes dealing with change difficult.
  • The Curse of the Musical Legends
    Can the children of legends ever be legendary themselves? Or, despite their golden headstart, is their fate sealed in mediocrity from the time they are born?
  • The Fallacy of Not Hurting Anyone With an Affair
    Many people embarking on an affair often express the desire not to hurt anyone, but is that hope contradictory in the face of the obvious betrayal?
  • The Gift of Interaction
    Are you too busy to interact with someone else? Perhaps to make a call, text, or just see how they are? Is everything else crowding out that special connection with another person? Regular interaction is not only essential for our development and sanity, it is also a precious gift.
  • The Hallmark of Unhappy Couples
    Relationships are supposed to make you happy and to reinforce you as a valued person. If it is not doing that, it is failing in its main objective - enhanced joy and mutual happiness. What is your relationship like? Does it have more criticism and negative action than positive ones? Do you feel uplfited and significant within it? Spot the early signs of decline.
  • The Impact of Opposing Gender Development on Relationships (1)
    The Early Years: Opposing gender development has been one of the contributing factors to the breakdown of relationships because women and men do not evolve in the same way, particularly relating to their sense of self and level of confidence.
  • The Impact of Opposing Gender Development on Relationships (2)
    The Later Years: Opposing gender development impacts negatively on many relationships, hence the increasing high level of break-ups and divorces. This becomes most stark after 45 years old with the later years being an anti-climax for many men.
  • The Limits of Professional Power
    Leaders may seem to have a lot of power, but such power is very limited because it depends on a subtle form of worker allowance which is not easily noted.
  • The Main Turn-Offs in Relationships
    How do you feel about the roles you have in your partnership? Do you believe the jobs are shared equally? Do you feel a sense of being taken for granted or taken advantage of? It could have something to do with the way you each perceive the roles you share and could affect the success of your partnership.
  • The Most Important Role Of The Manager
    Many people have different ideas of the key role of managers and how they should lead. But being able to do just two things well with your team could transform your it from a mediocre one to a high performing force.
  • The Power of Expectations to Destroy Relationships
    Relationships are supposed to make you happy and to reinforce you as a valued person. But simple expectations have the the power to kill any relationship in its infancy. Spot the trends, if you can, in your relationship with these tips.
  • The Problem With Leadership Promotion
    Why are some managers failing at their task? Is it because of incomptence or is something else operating there? What are the basic essentials for being an effecive manager?
  • The Silent Destroyer in Relationships
    Many people marry or set up home together very young, then find that a few years down the line the relationship has grown stale or fallen apart. There would have been many reasons for that, but overarching all of them is a deadly culprit which is so stealthy, the parties are seldom aware of it.
  • The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships
    After the Valentine excitement, are you still alone? Still searching for your elusive ideal? Or are you in a a conflicitng relationship? Do you feel unhappy without knowing why? Have you just broken up with a lot of blaming on both sides? Not sure of the main reason behind all those situations??
  • The Top 5 Keys To A Longer Life
    Why do some people live much longer and healthier than others? Is there some magic formula to increase those precious years? It might be simpler than you think.
  • We are Soooo In Love, So Why Doesn't My Partner Want To Progress it?
    Agony Aunt Advice Do you have a reluctant lover? There is a definite reason for it.
  • What Do You REALLY Want? 5 Magical Ingredients For Getting It
    Do you really know what you want? If you don't, how can you get it? There is a very simple and guaranteed way to achieve your dreams. There is no rocket science attached to that. It all depends on YOU, no one else.
  • What Is True MySpace Friendship?
    MySpace members have a habit of accusing each other of being 'fake', not really sincere. But the sheer size of this networking site hides an interesting dynamic and throws light on the whole question of friendship itself and what it really means.
  • Why a Permanent Job is Bad for You (1)
    A permanent job might sound just the thing for you right now. You never have to worry about money again for a long time. But what might you be trading for that in return for such 'security'?
  • Why a Permanent Job is Bad for You (2) - The Personal Costs
    Permanent jobs might seem very attractive at first. But there are personal costs to having a permanent job, despite the rewards, and the biggest one is in the gradually loss of self-belief and self-esteem.
  • Why Do Men Cheat?
    (Agony Aunt) Reply to a specific question fro someone whose boyfriend had an affair.
  • Why Keeping Promises Are Very Important
    Many people make promises, in both business and personal life, don't keep them, and think nothing of it. That pattern becomes part of their way of living. However, the consequences of those broken promises can have far reaching effects for all parties involved.
  • Why No Affair is Ever a Mistake
    Is there such a things as mistakes? And can we ever regard an affair as a mistake in our lives? That is to assume we had other choices at the moment of action. No, we didn't, though we had lots of other options! There's a very subtle difference in that.

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