- You Won't Find Happiness Here
Trying to find happiness? Don't look here. - You Can't Escape Life's Transitions
You can’t escape them, life’s transitions. They will either sneak up on you and gradually appear in your life while you are not paying attention or they can smack you in the forehead when you least expect or want them. There are dozens of them, here are just some of the common ones, the transition; - Why Not Take The Happiness Quiz And Discover The Real Meaning Of Happiness
Are you happy? Really happy with every area of your life? 85% of the population would change something to find greater happiness. Are you one of them? - Want to be Happy? Say It And Do It Now
Happy people have developed the habit of, doing it now. They know that the present passing moment may never come to them again, so they work as if they will live forever, but live as if today is their last. One day we will all be right! - Unresolved Conflict Will Have A Negative Impact On Your Happiness
If you don't have conflict in your relationship it is probably because you have a long distance relationship or are living in denial. - Two Vital Traits If You want To Be Really Happy
There are two ways to go through life. Be or act and share or hoard. Guess which ones happy people embrace. - Stop Trying To Fix Everyone Else - Why Not Work On Yourself First
I have never understood why some people feel the need to 'fix' other people. We all need fixing in some way if you ask enough people. Someone, somewhere will have a problem with one of our attitudes, philosophies, behaviors, beliefs, values, and ad infinitum. - Patience Is One Of The Critical Attitudes Of Happy People
So, you want it now, all of itNot willing to wait patiently at the gate of happiness and success you struggle, pursue, push, pull, fret, and stew over why life doesn't give you what you want when you want it. - No One Looks At Life The Same - Everything In Life Is A Totally Perceptual Experience
No one looks at life its events, conditions or circumstances the same. We see life not as it is but as we are. Each of us has a mental filter through which we interpret other people's behavior, events and circumstances. Ten people can look at the same piece of art, auto accident, movie or sunset and see it differently. This gives life is diversity and its relationships their challenges. - Living Your Life In Auto-Pilot Will Guarantee Frustration And Disappointment
Are you going through your life in auto-pilot? Are you letting your responses and reactions to life’s circumstances and events be dictated by your previous values, attitudes and beliefs or are your responses a result of living in the present? - Listen Your Way To Happiness
One of the biggest complaints many women have about the men in their lives is that they don't listen. I have not done any formal research on the different listening abilities between men and women, but I believe women are better listeners than men. - Lighten Up Will You
Most people take life far too seriously. You and I are not going to get out of this life alive so why not enjoy the gift of life today as if it was your last. One day you will be right. - Life Outlook and Relationship Success
Some people are naturally optimistic and positive, while others are the opposite. When two people in a relationship have opposing life outlooks, it is often difficult for one to convince the other that his way is better, right, or makes more sense then his partner's. As a result, the positive person will always see the glass as half full and will take that attitude into most life circumstances. The more negative partner will view the glass as half empty and let that influence his attitudes accordingly. - Life Is Not A Dress Rehersal
Each of us is born, spend our days searching for peace, success, happiness, freedom, pleasure and then we die. Some people leave a positive legacy behind while others leave a destructive one. Some people contribute to the lives of their fellow man while others only take from society. And some people have a positive impact on the world while others have a negative one. - If You Want To Be Happy, Let Go Of Your Old Baggage
Old baggage is emotional stuff we carry around with us for days, months or years. It is usually negative like old hurts, resentments, anger or some kind of pain inflicted by another person. It can also be just carrying around some old guilt, failure or fear that impacts our current relationships and life in general.Why do people hold on to all of these old feelings? Everyone moves through life with their own very personal agendas, needs and life issues. Old baggage starts to feel very comfortable after a while, so comfortable as a matter of fact many people die never able to let go of these hurts, slights and pain. - Having Fun Yet, Or Is It Same Stuff Different Day?
Are you working harder and enjoying it less?Has much of the fun that you used to have in your career, job or relationship been replaced with stress, frustration, disappointment and anxiety?You are not alone. - Have You Ever Wondered? or Am I The Only One?
- Feeling Lonely Or Alone? This Could Be One Of The Best Times Of Your Life
There is a significant difference between being lonely and being alone. Loneliness is caused by a deficiency of the spirit – a spirit that needs people or activity with regularity in order to feel a sense of worthiness, belonging or acceptance. Being alone can be seen as a positive opportunity to get to know and like yourself better while growing in wisdom, understanding and maturity. - Everyone Is Going To Die With Unfinished Business
The clock of God is TickingTickingTicking. The days pass into weeks, the weeks into years, and you guessed it, one day the clock will stop for us in this lifetime and the calendar will hit its last day. - Ego Is The Biggest Cause Of Unhappiness
The biggest cause of unhappiness is ego. Everyone has an ego. It is the selfish part of us and it is necessary for survival. It can be useful in dealing with certain difficult situations or people. The problems begin when the ego gets out of hand and begins to consume attitudes, behavior and relationships. - Can You Really Accept Others For Who They Are?
People who live happy lives accept the uniqueness of individuals. They are not on a mission to change them, correct them or invalidate them. Happy people understand that everyone is on their own path throughout life doing what they need to do in order for them to fulfill their destiny. - Can You Forgive Yourself And Others?
Who do you need to forgive and why? Remember forgiveness is not about the other person or what they did or didn't do, it is about who you are and who you are becoming, how you are growing and relieving yourself of the negative residual health, emotional and relationships issues that can be caused by failing to forgive someone.
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